In Memory Of Angela

Her name is Angela. A happy and energetic girl at six. People call her “Angel” because of her solemn face with rosy cheeks that make her seem a heaven-sent. She’s the ideal baby of every couple; an obedient child. She goes running to Lola after her class at the preparatory school to hear her favorite fairy tales. Her parents left her with her Lola when they work abroad, in preparation for her future.

Years went by, the little cute darling turned into a gorgeous, conservative lady. She had so many admirers. With the financial support from her parents, she goes to college at a private school in the city, kilometers away from her Lola. She rents an apartment to minimize her commuting. Lack of money was never a problem. Her friends tell her she’s very fortunate for having parents like hers. They can give all she wanted. Yes it is true, she can have all her wishes but there’s something she can’t achieve despite the luxury. She misses something. And this is what she hides from her friends. They never knew, she wasn’t really that fortunate. She rarely saw her parents. The last time with them was when she was still in high school. They weren’t present in her graduation from primary and secondary school, wherein she received high honors. She wasn’t given importance. This is Angela’s thought whenever she’s alone. She really longs for her parents’ care and love. It’s good that she has her loving Lola, who took her parents’ place, acted as her mother and father since childhood. No doubt she love her Lola so much. And even in the smallest difficulty she has, her Lola is always there to guide and tell her what to do.

One day, her friends were so worried with the many absences she incurred. Three days stretched to more than a week away from class. They paid her a visit at her Lola’s place but didn’t find Angela there. According to her Lola, she left on Sunday but failed to come back home for the week-end to get her allowance. Lola was terribly worried. Soon, they decided to look for Angela.

They searched the places that she possibly could have gone to but they found no Angela. Afternoon, Lola’s losing heart. But there’s one more thing she’s afraid of — Angela’s parents. What will they do upon knowing that Angela is missing? Ah! she doesn’t really know what to do anymore. After sometime, a knock on the door startled her. Instantly, she thought it was Angela. She rushed to the door and opened it immediately. Her excitement turned into disappointment after seeing the postman, who handed her a letter. It was from Angela’s parents. She opened it quickly. The old woman grew more tense. This is what she’s been afraid of. Angela’s parents are coming home for a vacation. She cried out Angela’s name. She looked up and uttered a prayer. Yes, she can’t do anything more but pray. Lola looked pitiful, seated at the window, hoping that Angela would come home.

As she was expecting, Angela emerged from the door. She was taken by surprise. She doesn’t know what to say, whom to thank but she found herself hugging her granddaughter. Angela cried. “Apo…” Lola began, “what is it? What happened? Why?” This time, Angela cried more deafeningly. Her Lola caress her back trying to calm her. After sometime, Angela stopped crying. Her Lola gave her a glass of water to calm her. Lola looked at Angela. She noticed that Angela’s face is etched with pain. She’s so pale, her face a picture of no hope, her shoulders down and seems to be out her mind. Her Lola asked Angela again. And finally, Angela began to relate what happened, “L-Lola, they tried to… to kill me… but I promised them not to report to the authorities… so, they set me free… and alive.” Her Lola’s confused with Angela’s story. She asked more questions and Angela made it clearer. The old woman wanted to report to the police what happened but Angela doesn’t want to bring the incident out. She just wanted a silent and peaceful living. Soon, they decided to keep it untold.

It is really good that she has her Lola who comforts her every time she has problems. She’s grateful to the Lord for having her. Every time she remembers the tragic encounter, her LolaApo, you’re thinking about it again… don’t let this be your hindrance in achieving any goal you have, leave it that way. Don’t be stuck with the past, I love you and you will never be alone as I am here.” This is the most inspiring thought of her Lola she’ll never forget. would tell her, “

One morning, she heard murmurs from the sala that woke her up. Lola called her then, “Angela, come… your Mama and Papa have just arrived.” There was excitement in Lola’s voice and so in Angela. This is the best news she ever heard. After hearing that, she jumped from bed and run downstairs. She was so eager to see her parents once more. And she found herself hugging her parents. There were tears — tears of joy, seeing her parents once more. They fill every corner of their home with joy and laughter, which wasn’t so years ago. And once more, smile in Angela’s face is evident, a picture of happiness — longed for, for so long.

Weeks passed. Angela’s parents’ vacation is almost over. They’re so worried of telling this to their daughter because they know she’d cry again. As they’re having breakfast one morning, they have decided to inform Angela about the trip. And as usual, since they arrived, Angela got to the table with a smile on her face for she’s really happy to have them again. But as they began to speak, Angela threw up. She hurriedly went to the kitchen. They were left puzzled and worried about her. Lola grew worried, because she made a conclusion, and so sure that Angela’s having morning sickness — the result of the bad incident. They heard a noise from the kitchen. They found her body lying on the floor. They immediately brought her to the hospital. After some diagnosis the doctor inform them that Angela’s pregnant. They were shocked except for Lola. And they went rushing to her room. They found Angela sitting on bed, hopelessly staring outside the window where she witness a scene of a happy family — a couple with their cute little girl. This is what Angela long most during her childhood that she didn’t experience.

A slap on her face brought her back to the present, she was shocked. She saw her mother looking at her, like a beast ready to eat its prey. She was so confused, she didn’t know what the matter was. “Ma-a.., what is it?”, she asked innocently. “You’re 1 month pregnant according to the doctor,” her father started. “How could this be? Do you already have your boyfriend and had sex with him? Is that what you learned?” She can’t find a word to utter. Yet her tears started to flow. Once again her mother asked her but this time it is more terrifying. “What happened, Angela?!” With this, is another slap on her face. Angela can’t find a word to say. She doesn’t know how to start because of the scene she’d never expected to happen. This time, the mother had convinced her daughter to speak. “Ma,” Angela started but there’s still fear in her. “I am a victim of rape, kept for days by men who used me,” she tearfully said. Her parents were shocked, “I… I tried to escape but I failed. It’s good I was able to convince them to set me free, alive. At first I wanted to be dead, yet I think of all of you whom I shall be leaving, I just wanted to see you once more and be with you.” After hearing her, her Mama and Papa look at each other. Angela’s right. “Yes, I always wanted to be at your side since you left me with Lola,” Angela continued, “I envy the other children before, for they enjoy their childhood life with their mothers and fathers beside them. They love them so much. But me? I long for what they have. It’s good I have Lola who’s always with me and took care of me until now. She’s the only person whom I poured my sentiments with, in all those times..and now you’re leaving me again? Go on! Make your life the best with all you have. I can manage… I did it for years. I can do it… with Lola.” The couple were speechless, knowing Angela’s right. On their way home, his father’s still eager to know who did this to her. “Angela, who did this to you, do you know them?”, her father asked her. “As I have said, it is no more important. What is important now is my baby whom I shall be giving birth and take good care of. I will never make the same mistakes you did… I will love my baby with the best way I can.” Her father was quite hurt of what he heard from Angela. It’s true. They let her live her life alone without them.

Years passed, Angela’s baby’s now a cute little darling like her when she’s just a li’l kid. She’s happy playing with the other children near them, while her Lolo and Lola are so happy watching her. “If only Angela’s here, she’d know the feeling of being a mother of an angel, like Angeline.” It’s Angeline’s Lolo, “Uh! Sure, with this kind of baby she would probably enjoy her life as a parent… if only she didn’t die…” Angeline’s Lola started to cry again after remembering Angela, who died after giving birth with Angeline. “Stop crying. That’s God’s will, we will all end there. What we shall do now is to give Angeline, our apo, the best we can do and never leave her as what we’ve done with Angela,” Lolo ended.

Author: Amy Gunnacao

*Published in True Friends Newsmag (October 2008 issue)